Off The Record Podcast

Do married women have a back up plan (man)?

The fellas discuss if women keep a back up man on the side just in case their relationship doesn't work out. A recent "study" says they do.

Visiting Africa

In this episode of OTR, Brother Brandon takes center stage as he describes in detail his experience visiting the motherland, Africa. We hope you enjoy hearing him share the joy and pain he experienced returning home for the first time.

Why are men afraid to get a vasectomy?

In this episode of OTR the fellas discuss birth control. Specifically, a procedure that most men view as the boogie man...a vasectomy. We're going to dive into the misconceptions floating around this simple surgery and discuss why birth control is way too often left up to women to figure out.

The Clash of Titans: Kendrick vs. Drake - Hip Hop's Newest Feud

In this electrifying episode, we delve into the latest and most heated rivalry in the hip-hop world between Kendrick Lamar and Drake. We analyze the diss tracks, the history, and the impact on their respective careers. From Kendrick's powerful "Not Like Us" to Drake's response, we explore the lyrical warfare and the cultural significance.

We also discuss the broader implications of this feud on the hip-hop community, including the reactions from other artists and the fans. How does this beef compare to legendary rivalries like Jay-Z vs. Nas or 50 Cent vs. Ja Rule? Tune in as we break down the lyrics, the symbolism, and what it means for the future of hip-hop.

Plus, we touch on the evolving landscape of rap, the role of ghostwriters, and the pressures of staying relevant in a genre often dominated by youth. This episode is a must-listen for any hip-hop enthusiast looking to understand the dynamics of modern rap battles and their lasting impact.

What makes a good man or woman in 2024?

Welcome back to another engaging episode of OTR! In this episode, we dive into two hot-button topics - the evolving definitions of a good man and a good woman in 2024. Our conversation kicks off with a unique twist: instead of starting with what makes a good man, we explore what defines a good woman in today's rapidly changing world, sharing insights from four thoughtful brothers.

We delve into the ongoing "gender wars" and the societal checklists that attempt to define masculinity and femininity. From the influence of media and politics to the pressures of social media, we discuss how these forces shape our perceptions of gender roles. We also tackle the controversial topic of toxic masculinity and the impact of so-called "manfluencers" like Jordan Peterson and Joe Rogan.

Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of authenticity, self-respect, and mutual support in relationships. Whether you're navigating the complexities of modern dating or seeking to understand what truly makes a good partner, this episode offers valuable perspectives. Join us for a candid, thought-provoking discussion on the qualities that make a good man and woman in 2024.

Welcome Back

It's been two full years since the OTR boys recorded an episode. Some things have changed. New marriages, kids, some grey hairs, and bald heads but one thing hasn't changed. We give honest thoughtful opinions on everything. Tap in and ride with us once more.

Entanglement Season

Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith join the Red Table. Jada describes her relationship with August Alsina as an "entanglement" and the internet went nuts...

Forcing Dan Synder to change the Washington Redskins' name

Nike, Pepsi, and FedEx are forcing Danial Snyder to change the Redskin name. It's no surprise that this has become a topic given the larger social conversations taking place at the moment. To get some perspective on how Snyder and to a larger extent the NFL operates the fellas welcome former Washington Redskin Darnerian McCants to the show. He shares some behind the scenes information on his direct interactions with Daniel Snyder. 

Jada, Will, and open marriages

Many have speculated Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have an open marriage but August Alsina confirmed it recently saying he was in a relationship with Jada and Will was cool with it. Who knows what's true but OTR is going to discuss open marriages.

Why are Black celebrities expected to lead

Black celebrities carry a burden to be outspoken against all forms of oppression. Fair or unfair, that is the expectation of our culture. When they don't do what we think they should backlash ensues and critics get louder. The OTR crew tackles this topic as some Black celebrities have been criticized for not doing enough.